The above article explains everything I strive for quite well. Long before I read this, these have been the ideals that I strive for. They can be difficult, but that's the point, isn't it? It does, as the article clearly states, cause confusion and derision amongst males and females alike.
There is a point to this behavior, though. I just found the article and it rings true. It has been something I've worked on for years. Although it has gained me prestige from my peers, I find it is surprisingly most difficult when applied to romance. I believe this to be a sign of how far our actions and outlooks have fallen as men.
I have noticed that when I am around female friends, males who approach them will attempt to match my demeanor and act as gentlemen. Sadly, however, once I am separated from them I'm quite appalled by their behavior conducted behind my back. This is why the fierce gentleman has trouble gaining the trust of a woman. Who can blame them when all they have known are snakes?
It is important to remain vigilant, I think. The message is one of importance. It is possible to respect, admire, and be attracted to someone and bear no ill intent. I try to teach. Maybe someday some will learn.
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